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As for the groupies, it's up to the member to keep them in check.
If you know you have a boyfriend or girlfriend (yes, sororities have groupies too) it's your responsibility to control yourself around them and make them aware the you're in a relationship and you're not going to have any foolishness.
I do prefer to date Greek men because of my huge commitment to my sorority.
The cool thing about my current boyfriend is that we were both rush chair at the same time and both chapter presidents at the same time.
He was trippin over the committe meetings and chapter meetings that I had to go to.
He is a few years older than I am, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it or not?
The only difference is that they now have 3 letters across their chest.
Both Greeks and non Greeks (the ones I know and have affiliated myself with) have problems with commitment especially while still in college or immediately after crossing.
I suppose if you date someone in the Greek system there is that advantage that he will understand your reasons for being in a sorority, etc.
However I have met some real slimey fraternity boys in my day and pass them over for a GDI no prob . I didn't want him to chose between 2 things he loves so I decided for him; I left him.
It might be easier for people who are both greek but to me when u are ME PHI ME like I am and involved with someone who is greek, Is Very Hard. Personally, I don't find greek men any different from non-greek men.